Mrs. Sheehan,
In the Spring of 2004, did your son call you or write to you and ask that if he should fall in combat, that YOU, his own mother, would make it your life's duty to protest his actions, and to protest his sacrifice?
I served in Iraq from February to December in 2003, the first year of the war. Although I was shot at and almost blown up and we were in harms way almost every single day, I am thankful that I personally knew none who lost thier lives in the line of duty. But everyday we heard of the sacrifice our brothers and sisters in arms were making. Our job was not put ourselves on the front lines, although we were there anyway. Our job was to provide supplies and support for those men and women who knew that each day could very well be thier last.
There is no more honorable way to die than to sacrifice one's life for another. That is what it means to be a soldier. Everyday, we would watch each other's backs. We take care of each other. And very frequently in a war situation, we lose our brothers and sisters. But that is what sacrifice is.
Our nation was birthed from the sacrifices of our fathers, grandfathers, and thier fathers before them all the way to the Revolutionary War; a war that was forged because of a people who were being oppressed by a mighty and relentless dictator. That is what lived and breathed so many years in the heart of Iraq. That is what the very people of that nation were so afraid of, they could not muster their own strenght to revolt against it.
It is THAT reason, and that reason ALONE, that we entered into this war. It is by the ULTIMATE sacrifice of God's own son, that ALL men deserve to live without the shadow of fear. ALL men of ALL nations deserve to raise thier families without the fear that someday someone may try and take thier lves away from them by radical means.
It was this very idea that started the United States Army. Although I did not know your son, I will forever remember him and all those who give thier lives daily for the better of man-kind. Why? For one, it is my American duty to always remember those who have given thier lives - from the fields of Gettysburg, the shores of Normandy, the sand and dust of Baghdad. But mainly, he is my brother. If by God's will, I had served with him, I would have done everything within my power to save his life because I have faith he would have done the same for me.
All the songs or poems that this world has to offer will never still the pain of a lost family member. Only by taking the time to allow ourselves to grieve can we truely continue with our daily lives. I do not believe what you are doing now is bringing honor to your son's memory. More than 1,500 soldiers have sacrificed thier lives for the past two and a half years. Are you so selfish that you would call for an end to the combat for just your own boy? What about the other 1,500 mothers and fathers who have buried thier own children? Are you so selfish that you would dishonor THIER sacrfice by demanding an end to the combat?
I may be speaking for myself, but I would not have to look far for soldiers who would support me in this; the only way we can honor them, the only way we can honor your son, is to continue the fight. We MUST continue what we have endured for this long and we must make safe the people of Iraq. It will take time. History has tought us this and many of us have been so foolish to forget it.
Please, Mrs. Sheehan. Go home. Be with your family. Mourn with them more if you must, but live with them and laugh with them and remember your son as the hero he is. And please, honor him by giving your support to those who continue to serve our nation everyday and those who will die to protect it.
I pray that the peace of God will envelop you and give you rest. No parent should have to bury thier own child, but no grief should last so long to kill our spirit before our body.
U.S. Army Reserves Veteran
Private First Class